Sir Claire Black From London Feb. 24th-27th/March 3rd, 2017

                                                      SIR CLAIR BLACK  

                                                Scottish Pervert in London


Imagine letting go of the burden of control for a while. To step into another world where your darkest, deepest desires are welcomed. Where you can explore the limits of pain, sensuality, teasing and intimacy. Where your only focus is what is being done to and with you. No thinking, no decisions.

Now imagine your partner-in-crime is a genuine, sweet, playful, sadistic Dominant who relishes taking control just as much as you enjoy letting it go. Someone well practiced in the arts of Dominance and submission, sadism and masochism and delighting in all the subtleties therein.

Welcome! Join me in The Clawing Room where we can forget the outside world and just revel in kink, BDSM, sensual pleasure, ecstasy through agony. We could play with hot wax, bondage. teasing, whipping, needles, blindfolds....

I've been hedonistically indulging my kinky desires since I was a Scottish lass (further in the past than you might think). Being a perfectionist I've become accomplished in the use of many toys in this time, but I'm also a neophile – I love new and shiny things, a new toy, a new way to play with you. I revell in finding new ways to subvert the Mistress/slave, Dominant/submissive, BDSM traditions. How about doing BDSM with a smile? A dominatrix in control without the costume? To gaze into each others eyes and laugh whilst I violate your skin.

The real human being

I insist on being real in sessions, no tacky façade or persona. This means I'll only do things I enjoy, I'll wear clothes I feel comfortable and sexy in, I'll rarely wear make-up, and our play will be on my terms. What this means for you is that you can be 100% certain that I'm enjoying what we are doing, and that I'm doing it for the love not just the money, and trust me, it shows

                                                                         The sensual control freak

As well as being a competent sadist, and self-admitted control freak (we won't play until the lighting, temperature, clothing and ambiance is perfect), I'm also quite a soft and sensual creature, and do love a good cuddle. I delight in good food, particularly Japanese, European or American, and enjoy company and conversation whilst I eat.

                                           Sessions

First Times

I like to start building a connection before we go into the playroom so that when we do more intimate things we already have a base of trust and understanding. The first time we meet we'll start with a cup of tea and a chat (or coffee, water...forced tea drinking isn't my kink). I've enjoyed the company of people from experienced kinksters to wide eyed newbies, masochists, sensation junkies, submissives, bottoms and more. Wherever you are on the BDSM spectrum is just fine.

Building relationships

The most fulfilling sessions happen through time and from a relationship based on mutual trust and honesty. Occasional one off sessions are fun, they're an adrenaline rush, but I enjoy taking time to get to know people to really understand how their minds work and body responds. After time I will know exactly the effect a certain whip or riding crop has on you, the headspace different bondage positions put you in, I know how you react to that word or look, and I can use this knowledge to toy with you more and bring you more deeply into submission.

Every session is different

Exploring and Experimenting will happen. Boredom is anathema to me so no two sessions will ever be the same. I like company as I learn and try new things, sometimes it's a brand new skill, other times it's a subtle change in the way I hold a flogger. The smallest twist in an idea can make all the difference.

Some things I enjoy in play

  • Luxuriating in my power over you – power earned over time as you get to know me as a person, not assumed just because I'm Dominant and you're submissive, or because you think I'm hot
  • Pushing you to do things that are a bit scary, things you wouldn't normally do
  • Exploring your fantasies, finding ways to take you where you want to go
  • Getting us both high through endorphines, adrenaline and creative connections
  • Sometimes I just feel plain sadistic and want to hurt people for the joy of it
  • Ritual, working with intentions, suggestion – I don't care if it's all hippy woo or purely mental tricks, it's fun and rewarding
  • Service, I love being waited on, fed, treated like a prince(ss) and having someone do things for me because they want to and it brings them pleasure, not because I say
  • Teasing – I'm very aware how attractive you find me, and if my leg brushes yours, if you get a peek of my breast – this is all deliberate, I know exactly the effect it has on you and I get quite drunk on the power trip teasing gives me

Session length

For a first meeting usually 1 or 2 hours is best depending on what we're doing. I'm happy to advise when I know what you want to try. After this anything from 1 hour to overnight is normal, or even mini-breaks abroad if we're feeling adventurous.

Can you wear heels (corset, latex.....)?

Heels no, corset no, latex no. I'm not comfortable in them and will spend more time faffing with my outfit than playing with you. I like leather, fur, comfortable sexy black clothes, silk pyjama's and kimono's, boots. If you have a preferance you can ask me to wear something specific, and if I like it I will.

                               Kink Teaching/Training



A safe, held environment to explore the darkest corners of your desire

Claire Black is one of the best kink teachers in the world! I have learned fire, piercing and some rope with her and was blown away by her knowledge, experience, professionalism and attention to health and safety (as well as fun!). I've also witnessed Claire teaching a client how to explore his Dom side and saw how he totally blossomed under her guidance. If you want to learn kink, go see Claire!
- Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist

I create a warm and welcoming space for people to explore all of their kinky desires in whichever way is most useful. Always we will start with a cup of tea and a chat, and maybe that's as far as we go, or maybe that's just the first step on an erotic roller coaster where we figure out what gets you off and how to make that happen. I've worked with individuals of many genders on their own journeys, couples who've been together for decades and are just branching into new realms, new relationships of more than two and professional sex workers. All are welcome here.

Below is a full list of all workshops I’ve taught to larger groups over the years (and a couple of the super awesome people I’ve assisted).

02/16 – My Gender Workshop – assisted Kate Bornstein

10/15 – Urban Tantra Practitioners Training – assist Barbara Carrellas
08/15 – A Lick of Flame Bristol
07/15 – Shibari Demo Buddha Bar
06/15 – Urban Tantra Experience – assisted Barbara Carrellas
03/15 – Sacred Sex Sundays: Desires and Boundaries
02/15 – Lee Harrington Sacred Kink Initiatory Intensive – c0-produced and assisted Lee Harrington
02/15 – The Winter House – Pondering and Puddling
02/15 – The Winter House – Gender Free Genitals
01/15 – The Sacred Path of the Erotic Explorer – with Rebecca Lowrie and Seani Love
01/15 – Setting and Manifesting – with Rebecca Lowrie

Hosted 10 Sacred Pleasures socials throughout 2014
11/14 – Penultimately – with London Faerie
11/14 – Together London – with London Faerie and Gayatri
10/14 – The Sacred Path of the Erotic Explorer – with Seani Love and Rebecca Lowrie
08/14 – The Summer House weekend – Conscious Touch
08/14 – The Summer House Weekend – Setting intentions
08/14 – The Summer House Weekend – Exploring the Pussy with Marti
06/14 – Together London – with London Faerie
05/14 – Urban Tantra Practitioners Training Programme – Assisted Barbara Carrellas

12/13 – Old Skin New Skin – with Dossie Easton and London Faerie
12/13 – Conversations with a Slutty Soul – with London Faerie and Dossie Easton
09/13 – Pleasure Portals co-hosted with London Faerie and Dakini Kimaya
08/13 – The Summer House Weekend – Drawing Out workshop
08/13 – The Summer House Weekend – Basic Shibari workshop
08/13 – The Summer House Weekend – Naming your Desires
08/13 – Osho Leela festival of conscious sexuality – D/s workshop with London Faerie
08/13 – Osho Leela festival of conscious sexuality – Polyamory Workshop
07/13 – Domme School: Fire Wax and Needles
06/13 – The Leather Shrine: A one day exploration of kinky magic
06/13 – Queer Conscious Sex and Power with Amanda Gay-Love
06/13 – Smorgasbord London – with London Faerie
05/13 – Presentation and demo about Professional domming at Bar Wotever
05/13 – Smorgasbord Bristol – with London Faerie
03/13 – Equinox Ritual Hook Pull – pierced and co-host with Benjamin Robinson
03/13 – Pleasure Portals London – with London Faerie and Dakini Kimaya
02/13 – Domme School Fire, Wax & Needles (led multiple times)
02/13 – Purvida weekend at Osho Leela – led Expansive Sluttery workshop, assisted London Faerie in D/s workshop
01/13 – Dancing in the Dark Prague – with London Faerie

12/12 – Smorgasbord London – with London Faerie
12/12 – Glimpses – Expansive Sluttery – hosted workshop
10/12 – Smorgasbord Bristol – with London Faerie
10/12 – Your Kinky Cherry Bristol  -demo with London Faerie
08/12 – Osho Leela Festival of Conscious Sexuality – D/s and Impact Play workshops with London Faerie
06/12 – Pleasure Portals London – with Rebecca Lowrie and London Faerie
05/12 – Urban Adventures in the Underworld – with London Faerie and pierced hook pull
03/12 – Your Kinky Cherry London – demo with London Faerie
02/12 – Smorgasbord London – with London Faerie

12/11 – Daytime Playtime – with London Faerie (led multiple times)
12/11 – Whipping up a Storm – with London Faerie
11/11 – Pleasure Portals – with London Faerie and Rebecca Lowrie
09/11 – Whipping up a Storm – with London Faerie

*countless kink and ritual related performances for After Pandora, Sacred Pleasures and Queer Rites



 

    


Phone number:404-825-5106          Email:claire@ecstasyinagony.com          Website:sirclaireblack.co.uk/